Attitude..You Have The Right To Choose !

Hye peeps its been awhile, I just get some time to at least come back here to write again. Hahaha.And today I want to talk about attitude, a word that brings many meanings.Lets just start. :) Attitude is like our action, feeling or mood. Everything we say or do will cause some effects. So here it means tht we in charge with the causes. Good attitude, good results, bad attitude, bad result. Attitude shapes our life. For most of us learning new habits can take times, it’s like we walk out from a dark tunnel to a bright light of a day. Attitude can relates in many phenomena, for example, if we willing to learn with all our might in college or school, we can achieve the best results in life, but if we don’t care of it, it will be the other way round. So here we know that what we receive in life, what we accomplished and what we get are over all attitudes of ours .Okay, firstly to develop a good attitude, one self need to develop a good attitude towards himself. Yeah, we can’t give to others smtg tht we don’t have right? so it’s the attitude we take to ourself. You can actually see a person who has a bad attitude towards others is actually having a poor attitude to himself at the first place. Maybe he is unhappy about smtg. A happy attitude commonly comes from a happy person and a bad attitude may mostly come from a person that always feel frustrated to himself. For a man or woman with a good attitude, same principle it holds, expecting the best, so that what they get, as poor attitude always expecting the worst. For example, we tend to take our self for granted, we cannot even accomplish the goal that we can reach, we tend to ignore tht there is a big undeveloped talent and ability in us that eventually can be used. Hundreds of people out there narrowed and darkened their life simply because they take a doubtful attitude towards themselves. Attitude is a reflection of a person, as they say, in the insides shows what on the outsides. Attitude can cause a brilliant result or even negative result. However, to stay in a good attitude, it should be trained by us. Successful people come from many shapes and colours, also different backgrounds and the level of knowledge, but they have one thing in common which is they aspect more good out of life than bad, they expect succeed than failure, and they do. If we don’t like our environment, we can change, don’t wait for the world to change for you. 

As we notice in life, most of the trouble lies on a poor attitude. Life is dull only to the dull people, well that is true, and also there is a saying which sounds like this "life is interesting only to interesting people". Also we need to remember that before you do something, you need to be something, Yeah some people that we can call so lucky which all the wonders happened to them and they keep having good results in life. Actually we cannot really called them as born lucky, but we may be one of them if we have a good attitude in have strong believe that we can achieve what we aim in life and work smart to get it just as they do. The results will be nothing sure than amazing I bet. If you want others to treat you with admiration and respect, treat others with admiration and respect first. Treat every person like the most important person on earth. You know why we should respect and admire others equally? Because this act itself will build an important habit in you which is for sure positive. When others get the feeling that they are important, needed and appreciated, they naturally will give their love, respect and supports to the person who fills their need. People with good attitude will naturally rise to the top. Their position is the result of their attitude. Just take this condition, on how you treat your family members, the most important people in your life, make sure your attitude is perfect because it shows your roots. And in life when people starts to annoy you in any condition, never permits yourself to drop to his level, you get me? Don’t let other’s unhappiness makes you unhappy. So after all these explanations from me about attitude, I want to show some points that are important for you people to bear in mind. First, our attitude towards others determines their attitude towards us. Second, before you achieve in life the result you want, you need to act, think and conduct the life like a person you wanted to become. Lastly, when you treat every person as the most important person in the world, both of you will benefits. :)

Behave And Love Everyone :)

Decision Making, Hard Or Easy?

In life, we can't run from making decisions.. it may be about what to wear in the morning, what colours suit you the best to attend a dinner, which TVs channel to watch, and what is your next step in life. Well it may sound easy, but it's actually not that easy. Let me just share my views about decision making. For me, to make a decision is like to decide on your next life's scene and it appears to be so hard for me. I will always avoid the situation that needed me to involves in decision making process not because I scared I will make a wrong decision, but because I am a deep thinker and when I started to think, I will never stop, believe me. :P

Yeah, as a deep thinker or some called me as an "over-thinker" may make things unsolved and more depressing for my own self, however, I do believe that in taking a decision, it should be taken seriously and it’s not something to be play on. Let me put it this way, now imagine, you are in the situation which you need to choose between attending your best friend's birthday party or accepting your family request to go for a family dinner together on the same date and at the same time. Which one will be you priority? You may say both family and friend are important, but still, a decision needed. Which will you choose?

Here it comes the dilemma and unwanted feelings, stress started to lingers around you and make you feel guilty without any reasons. Oh snap, its kinda hard right, I told you. :P So what  is your decision?

Okay, In this case, it seems a bit hard to decide, however, if I’m in this situation, I will take as much time that I have to think about it, and here comes the time when your excitement to have fun with your family or friend *either one* turns to a zero mood situation. To make a decision is now becomes your biggest issue. And as I told you guys that I hate to make decision, I noticed I love to say "No" rather than saying "Yes" to both parties so that I don't have to think much and feel guilty. Hehe. Deep thinking is not fun alright peeps, please understand :P So from this for sure I will end up sitting at home alone, *anyway, I never make this type of decision, so don't take it too seriously on whatever I just decided here :P Don't judge eh :P

Actually this post is not to help anybody on how to make a good decision, you can Google that if you want to, but I just want to make people realize that every each of us has our own style in handling a situation or in making a decision. But if you need ideas or advice on which decision to make in your life, I can help you for sure, I swear. Lol.. But don't ask me to make a decision, because there will be no answer until the end, So act as you would and don’t mind on my way of handling decision making, because I’m not a good decision maker, it always end up so wrong :P So that's all for today I guess.

Have a good day people. :)

I Bet Most Of Us Will Take Short Cut Road In Decision Making And End Up Lost :P

Questions???

Have you ever feel like sinking in the darkest path of your life?

Have you ever wondered why people come and go?

Have you ever cry for others’ mistakes on you?

Have you ever smile without any reasons?

Have you ever laugh so hard and found yourself crying at the end?

Have you ever imagine how will you die?

Have you ever ask yourself why you did something that you should not?

Have you ever dream this life would be clean as a baby’s heart?

Have you ever feel doubt on yourself? 

Have you ever feel that this life is unfair but you keep on living?

Have you ever appreciated your friends? 

Have you ever looked into your parents’ eyes just to see how much they mean to you? 

Have you ever feel clueless from the confusing issues in life?
Have you ever feel stress out from the ones you love the most?

Have you ever wish to die soon?

Have you ever smile at a cat and hug it so tight?

Have you ever will to sacrifice for others?

Have you ever help a blind to cross a road?

Have you ever buy a pack of tissue papers from a poor old man on the streets?

Have you ever closed your eyes and sleep with heart ache? 

Have you ever felt what other’s are feeling? Have you?

A Last Question, Have you ever thank God for every chances for you to questions life?