In life, we can't run from making
decisions.. it may be about what to wear in the morning, what colours suit you
the best to attend a dinner, which TVs channel to watch, and what is your next step
in life. Well it may sound easy, but it's actually not that easy. Let me just
share my views about decision making. For me, to make a decision is like to
decide on your next life's scene and it appears to be so hard for me. I will
always avoid the situation that needed me to involves in decision making
process not because I scared I will make a wrong decision, but because I am a
deep thinker and when I started to think, I will never stop, believe me. :P
Yeah, as a deep thinker or some called me as an "over-thinker" may make things unsolved and more depressing for my own self, however, I do believe that in taking a decision, it should be taken seriously and it’s not something to be play on. Let me put it this way, now imagine, you are in the situation which you need to choose between attending your best friend's birthday party or accepting your family request to go for a family dinner together on the same date and at the same time. Which one will be you priority? You may say both family and friend are important, but still, a decision needed. Which will you choose?
Here it comes the dilemma and unwanted feelings, stress started to lingers around you and make you feel guilty without any reasons. Oh snap, its kinda hard right, I told you. :P So what is your decision?
Okay, In this case, it seems a bit hard to decide, however, if I’m in this situation, I will take as much time that I have to think about it, and here comes the time when your excitement to have fun with your family or friend *either one* turns to a zero mood situation. To make a decision is now becomes your biggest issue. And as I told you guys that I hate to make decision, I noticed I love to say "No" rather than saying "Yes" to both parties so that I don't have to think much and feel guilty. Hehe. Deep thinking is not fun alright peeps, please understand :P So from this for sure I will end up sitting at home alone, *anyway, I never make this type of decision, so don't take it too seriously on whatever I just decided here :P Don't judge eh :P
Actually this post is not to help anybody on how to make a good decision, you can Google that if you want to, but I just want to make people realize that every each of us has our own style in handling a situation or in making a decision. But if you need ideas or advice on which decision to make in your life, I can help you for sure, I swear. Lol.. But don't ask me to make a decision, because there will be no answer until the end, So act as you would and don’t mind on my way of handling decision making, because I’m not a good decision maker, it always end up so wrong :P So that's all for today I guess.
Yeah, as a deep thinker or some called me as an "over-thinker" may make things unsolved and more depressing for my own self, however, I do believe that in taking a decision, it should be taken seriously and it’s not something to be play on. Let me put it this way, now imagine, you are in the situation which you need to choose between attending your best friend's birthday party or accepting your family request to go for a family dinner together on the same date and at the same time. Which one will be you priority? You may say both family and friend are important, but still, a decision needed. Which will you choose?
Here it comes the dilemma and unwanted feelings, stress started to lingers around you and make you feel guilty without any reasons. Oh snap, its kinda hard right, I told you. :P So what is your decision?
Okay, In this case, it seems a bit hard to decide, however, if I’m in this situation, I will take as much time that I have to think about it, and here comes the time when your excitement to have fun with your family or friend *either one* turns to a zero mood situation. To make a decision is now becomes your biggest issue. And as I told you guys that I hate to make decision, I noticed I love to say "No" rather than saying "Yes" to both parties so that I don't have to think much and feel guilty. Hehe. Deep thinking is not fun alright peeps, please understand :P So from this for sure I will end up sitting at home alone, *anyway, I never make this type of decision, so don't take it too seriously on whatever I just decided here :P Don't judge eh :P
Actually this post is not to help anybody on how to make a good decision, you can Google that if you want to, but I just want to make people realize that every each of us has our own style in handling a situation or in making a decision. But if you need ideas or advice on which decision to make in your life, I can help you for sure, I swear. Lol.. But don't ask me to make a decision, because there will be no answer until the end, So act as you would and don’t mind on my way of handling decision making, because I’m not a good decision maker, it always end up so wrong :P So that's all for today I guess.
Have a good day people. :)
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