Decision Making, Hard Or Easy?

In life, we can't run from making decisions.. it may be about what to wear in the morning, what colours suit you the best to attend a dinner, which TVs channel to watch, and what is your next step in life. Well it may sound easy, but it's actually not that easy. Let me just share my views about decision making. For me, to make a decision is like to decide on your next life's scene and it appears to be so hard for me. I will always avoid the situation that needed me to involves in decision making process not because I scared I will make a wrong decision, but because I am a deep thinker and when I started to think, I will never stop, believe me. :P

Yeah, as a deep thinker or some called me as an "over-thinker" may make things unsolved and more depressing for my own self, however, I do believe that in taking a decision, it should be taken seriously and it’s not something to be play on. Let me put it this way, now imagine, you are in the situation which you need to choose between attending your best friend's birthday party or accepting your family request to go for a family dinner together on the same date and at the same time. Which one will be you priority? You may say both family and friend are important, but still, a decision needed. Which will you choose?

Here it comes the dilemma and unwanted feelings, stress started to lingers around you and make you feel guilty without any reasons. Oh snap, its kinda hard right, I told you. :P So what  is your decision?

Okay, In this case, it seems a bit hard to decide, however, if I’m in this situation, I will take as much time that I have to think about it, and here comes the time when your excitement to have fun with your family or friend *either one* turns to a zero mood situation. To make a decision is now becomes your biggest issue. And as I told you guys that I hate to make decision, I noticed I love to say "No" rather than saying "Yes" to both parties so that I don't have to think much and feel guilty. Hehe. Deep thinking is not fun alright peeps, please understand :P So from this for sure I will end up sitting at home alone, *anyway, I never make this type of decision, so don't take it too seriously on whatever I just decided here :P Don't judge eh :P

Actually this post is not to help anybody on how to make a good decision, you can Google that if you want to, but I just want to make people realize that every each of us has our own style in handling a situation or in making a decision. But if you need ideas or advice on which decision to make in your life, I can help you for sure, I swear. Lol.. But don't ask me to make a decision, because there will be no answer until the end, So act as you would and don’t mind on my way of handling decision making, because I’m not a good decision maker, it always end up so wrong :P So that's all for today I guess.

Have a good day people. :)

I Bet Most Of Us Will Take Short Cut Road In Decision Making And End Up Lost :P

Questions???

Have you ever feel like sinking in the darkest path of your life?

Have you ever wondered why people come and go?

Have you ever cry for others’ mistakes on you?

Have you ever smile without any reasons?

Have you ever laugh so hard and found yourself crying at the end?

Have you ever imagine how will you die?

Have you ever ask yourself why you did something that you should not?

Have you ever dream this life would be clean as a baby’s heart?

Have you ever feel doubt on yourself? 

Have you ever feel that this life is unfair but you keep on living?

Have you ever appreciated your friends? 

Have you ever looked into your parents’ eyes just to see how much they mean to you? 

Have you ever feel clueless from the confusing issues in life?
Have you ever feel stress out from the ones you love the most?

Have you ever wish to die soon?

Have you ever smile at a cat and hug it so tight?

Have you ever will to sacrifice for others?

Have you ever help a blind to cross a road?

Have you ever buy a pack of tissue papers from a poor old man on the streets?

Have you ever closed your eyes and sleep with heart ache? 

Have you ever felt what other’s are feeling? Have you?

A Last Question, Have you ever thank God for every chances for you to questions life?