This
article written by Dr. M. Scott Peck is really fun and interesting to be read
by us. Before I go further, let me tell all of you the readers a little bit
about what this article is all about. Basically, this article is exposing on
two types of lovers which are romantic and libertine. A romantic is a lover
that will do anything for their partner to show how much they love their
partner. For example, they may buy lots of gift and prepared so many surprises
for their partner. They give out 100% of their love to their partner and may be
hurting a lot because they always forgive and accept the bitter situation in
the relationship without thinking about their own selves. They prefer to suffer
than break the relationship as their love is too strong. Compared to libertine,
this type of lover will put their selves first and then only their partner.
Commonly, it will not be hurting much for libertine if they experience breakup
in a relationship as they not give the full commitment in the love
relationship. Libertine also practices great strategies to keep them feel loved
as well as secured in love life.
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| True love? or True games? |
To
comment on this article, what I can say is that both types of lovers are true
in love, but just the way they carry themselves as a lover are different. As
for me, I cannot identify what type of lover I can be as I am not in any
relationship at the moment. But to think in a logical way, for me by being both
romantic and libertine at the same time will be the best things to be practice
in the love life. From my view, by giving much love and at the same time making
your own self as the priority compared to your partner is the good way to avoid
broken hearted moments. Just imagine, once you make your partner as your
priority or we called is as your “everything” it may causes you to forget about
your own right and needs that surely will give you a hard moments to go through
in your love life.
I
have seen many love stories based on my friend’s experiences. What I can say
here is that most of them are the “romantic” types and they always feels that
they are the cause of the break up between them and their partner even though
they are in the right party and they are actually not guilty at all. However, I
do have few friends that practice “libertine” type of lover and they seem so
happy all the time in their love life. They always can manage their problem
with their partners with their own “genius” strategies. But basically, they are
not serious enough in their love life with their partner and they prefer to
change partner regularly without any regrets or even any heart aches.
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| Tell me, which one is your TYPE? ;) |
In
short, I can say that either romantic or libertine, we humans should choose the
best when it comes to love as it not something that can be played like a game.Just
appreciate the best moments together and never lose the faith. Take care and
good luck from me to the happy couples out there. =D
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